Handling Objections Birthdays & Small Children

Since we been talking about handling objections the last few days let me share a family story about my grandson. As the waiter served my family our dinner while we were out celebrating my daughterโ€™s birthday, her five-year-old son, my grandson declared his favorite mealtime phrase,ย โ€œI donโ€™t like that.โ€

We hear this often at dinners, as my sweet and opinionated grandson is a very picky eater. He even uses the phrase when he has chosen the meal sometimes.

Either the food wasnโ€™t plated just as he had imagined or he changed his mind about it. This time though, my daughter was tied up with her youngest child, so I stepped in. Because handling sales objections is what I do, I decided to approach his objection like I would any other.

So I asked โ€œwhy?โ€The conversation went like this:

He said, โ€œI just donโ€™t like it.โ€

Me: โ€œBut you havenโ€™t even tried it.โ€

He: โ€œI know I donโ€™t like it.โ€

Me: โ€œYou chose it.โ€

He: โ€œI chose mac and cheese.โ€

Me: โ€œThat is mac and cheese.โ€

He: โ€œNo itโ€™s not, itโ€™s not yellow enough.โ€

Me: Ahhhhhhโ€ฆ.

Rather than try to solve the first statement, โ€œI just donโ€™t like it,โ€ I used a process for handling sales objections that Iโ€™ve refined over the years to get to the meat of the matter. It wasnโ€™t that my grandson just didnโ€™t like it, or that he had chosen it and changed his mind. Rather, it was a simple color issue.

Handling Sales Objections

We all face objections every day in the payments world. Merchants often raise reasons why they wonโ€™t move, wonโ€™t consider moving, or wonโ€™t even listen to what you have to say. Handling objections may be the biggest challenge salespeople face.

I am sorry to say, but there are no shortcuts. In fact, most people try to short circuit the questions by jumping in at the first comment that appears to be an objection. The results are not positive.

After a situation like that I often get a call from the deflated salesperson asking me what I would have done, and I think, โ€œsomething completely different.โ€  Handling objections is not about responding to the actual objections, itโ€™s about diagnosing them. (Read this blog)

In almost every case, an objection is a symptom, not the true issue. You need to probe a little to get to the true issue. To do so, you need to refrain from the temptation to immediately respond to their objection and instead ask the merchant a question.

These questions can vary, but unlike the simple one-word question, you want to ask a question that garners more detail.  Examples include:

  • Could you tell me more about your concern?
  • It sounds like this has happened often/before. Can you give me when and what happened?
  • Could you explain your question?

They may reply with the same objection. If so, reverse it. For example, say a merchantโ€™s objection is, โ€œI am not interestedโ€ and their response to your first question is, โ€œYou people come in all the time with all these promises. I just donโ€™t believe what youโ€™re saying or promising will actually happen.โ€

Itโ€™s important to understand that their first objection may lead to another objection that is still a symptom. In this example, they werenโ€™t interested because they perceived others in our profession didnโ€™t keep their promises. And knowing this doesnโ€™t necessarily allow you to diagnose the true objection. You must probe further.

Reverse it in this fashion: โ€œI can understand your concern, and I am aware of many in my profession who make promises they canโ€™t keep. But we arenโ€™t all that way. I know Iโ€™m not. In fact, I donโ€™t even know if I have a solution that works for you. Could you tell me some of the promises that havenโ€™t been kept? What are the issues you have that they didnโ€™t solve?โ€
Get to the True Objection

As you can probably tell, the true key to handling sales objections is to relentlessly ask questions until you get the true objection. Then address that objection head on.

Back to my original example with the skeptical merchant. The merchant might have been burned by promises in the past such as reducing cost or providing next day funding. When they realized that they had been taken advantage of, the merchant likely decided to guard themselves from future payments professionals with a fool-me-once kind of attitude.

Yes, this may take a little more time than desired, but the results are worth it. Invest the time, and you ultimately save yourself time in the long run. You may also have a happier merchant.

Oh, and I solved my grandsonโ€™s true objection rather simply. I asked the waiter for a little shredded yellow cheese. I sprinkled it on the top, and the color issue was solved, Mission Accomplished!!

Happy Selling,

David

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Author: David Matney

Payment Technology Specialist at Payment Lynx

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