Let’s get this out-of-the-way right now! On the road to success, you will have to face difficulties and challenges. Some of the challenges are very large and some are minor. Unfortunately, many make the minor challenges seem a lot bigger than they really are. This leads them to getting in the habit of complaining.
Most people complain when they feel that there is a significant gap between an expectation and reality. Complaints can make people feel like they connect with someone because they have a mutual dissatisfaction about something. The problem is, far too many people confuse complaining with venting.
All of us know people who complain all the time. It’s easier for them to complain than to be positive. The truth is most people do not want to be around those type of people, unless they are complainers themselves.
It’s important to remember that nobody said that life was going to be fair. No one owes you anything. Your successes and your failures are on you and what you do. No matter what we go through, success is still available. You have to make the decision to go out and get it.
We have an incredible power within us. It’s called ”the power to choose”. Complaining about something not going your way will change nothing. If you don’t like where you’re at, change something. If you don’t like your appearance, change something. If you’re tired of being in debt, change your behavior about money. If you find yourself feeling miserable, change something. Nothing will change until you change something. You have that power.
You are in control. You are in control of how you feel and you are in control on how you can improve your future. It’s all about making daily changes. You have to make daily improvements to make your life better. This is truly all up to you.
You may have dreams to change the world, but you can’t change the world until you change yourself. If you want to be better in your life, you will have to make changes. The good news is that you are in complete control of that.
Take inventory of the things that you may not like about where you are right now. While doing that, have a positive outlook knowing exactly where you are headed. You must know that you are going to make the changes needed to take your life where you want to take it. What are the big decisions you must make right now so you can be super excited about your future? Once you have that figured out, make the choice to make those changes.
It’s a personal decision to stop complaining, including about yourself. Make the decision to make wonderful improvements going forward. You are amazing and you truly matter. There is a wonderful plan for your life. You just have to make the decision to go out and achieve your dreams. You can do this.
Remember that your past does not equal your future. Don’t carry any hurt or resentment from the past. It’s time to let it go and get excited about your future. No complaints. Just move ahead with an optimistic attitude.
If you have found yourself complaining too much, today is your day to change that. Live with an attitude of gratitude. You have amazing opportunities right in front of you. It’s time for you to live the life of your dreams, the life that you deserve. Now go out there and make a difference!
Happy Selling,
David
