So many times in life, we get so caught up with what everybody else is doing. Unfortunately, with all the social media outlets that are out there, one can become fixated on comparing themselves to others. If you really want true success, it’s important to focus on yourself.
The only one you should compare yourself to is you. Your goal should be to become better today than you were yesterday.
You cannot do that by focusing on others. You have to focus on what you can do today to keep improving and growing.
People that are successful keep positive no matter what is going on around them. They do not get caught up on past failures. They take the proper steps they need to get them closer to achieving their goals. They do not get caught up in all the other distractions that come in life.
Now, in no way am I saying to be selfish. I always believe it’s important to help other people. However, what I have found is that you can’t give away something that you don’t have. This is why it’s also important to take care of yourself. You have to make yourself a priority.
For me, I have found that life is always about continued growth and progress. It is very important to not stay stagnant. You must always work on improving yourself.
In order to have self improvement, make sure you’re constantly writing down your goals so you know what direction you are heading. When you make the commitment to work on yourself and to improve each and every day, you will see the results that you have been looking for. You can have the life that you want by working at it each day.
When you focus on you, you will receive many benefits. By improving your relationship with yourself, you’re going to benefit in all areas of your life. You will learn to limit stress when you prioritize taking care of you.
If you’re not doing this already, start spending some time alone. Make this part of your schedule. This is why I stress waking up early and starting your day off positive. Create time each day to just sit quietly and focus on gratitude. Take a walk in the morning, which will help you get energized for your day.
Many times, we can be too hard on ourselves. It’s important to treat yourself like you treat others. Treat yourself with kindness and patience.
Make sure that your life is heading in the right direction. Create a list of goals that you would like to achieve and then create action items that will get you closer to the things that you want. Get rid of the things that are weighing you down and stopping you from having the life you desire.
Perhaps start exercising each day and eat healthy to feel your best. Make it a priority to take care of your body. Try to get at least 30 minutes of exercise each day. Go for a walk, hit the gym or even do some exercises right in your own home. Choose something you enjoy so exercising doesn’t feel like a chore. Start eating healthy and you will find that you will have much more energy.
Sleep also is a very important part of taking care of yourself. Sometimes, when life gets hectic, people sacrifice sleep in order to get everything done. The reality is, doing that is counterproductive. You will end up becoming exhausted and unfocused. Be consistent with your sleep schedule. For me, seven hours of sleep is what I need. I recommend getting at least 7 to 8 hours a night. Also, avoid checking your phone in bed. The emails and social media updates can wait.
A big goal in life is to be able to bless other people. You cannot do this if you have not focused on taking care of you. Make yourself a priority. You deserve that!
Let me encourage you, going forward, to focus on you. Make a commitment to grow and improve each and every day. You are your greatest asset.
Your future looks incredible and today is the beginning of the rest of your amazing life!
Happy Selling,
David
